While many people share stories of meeting their partners online, through friends’ introduction, Krystle, 30, now living in New York (USA) met her husband at work. Ben, 50, her husband is also her boss.
They met in 2014 when she first moved to New York and took a job as a nanny. Her employer is Ben. He wanted someone to take care of his children. At first, Krystle didn’t even think about falling in love with a boss 20 years older than her, but in the end, it really happened. At first, she even thought that this businessman was really unpleasant and difficult.
“When he thought he hired a part-time nanny but ended up with a full-time wife,” she shared.
Working as a nanny, the girl married the owner of the house.
The two begin to get to know each other, fall in love and eventually share this with their children. The two older children are quite shocked but gradually they also accept this relationship.
According to Krystle, at first, when her family and friends found out that she was dating a boss over 20 years old, everyone said she was crazy. The two sides have so much age difference that will cause many conflicts to happen, it is difficult to build happiness. Her relatives even said that Ben is old enough to be Krystle’s father, not boyfriend.
However, Krystle feels that the other person is worthy of giving love, so she ignores the words of disapproval. Ben’s children love Krystle more and more, making their relationship more convenient and closer.
However, the two still could not silence the people around them. Some people said that Krystle was just “digging”, others commented: “When he is 70 years old, you will have to change his diaper, try what you think at that time”.
Suspicious of her feelings, she decided to marry the boss to show everyone that their feelings are serious and not self-serving. She thinks this is the most serious way to prove it all.
“People kept saying I was crazy, but now, we’ve celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary and our 7th year together. My family consists of a husband and wife, his three grown children and his son. My 11 years old. We are extremely happy together, “Krystle shared.
Krystle has decided to marry her boss over 20 years old despite the bad comments.
In 2016, Krystle was proposed by Ben on a gondola in Venice (Italy). The wedding was held lavishly in the presence of 300 guests on Long Island, New York (USA).
She also insists that she is never ashamed of falling in love and marrying an older man. Not only that, her life is happier than other people with similar age relationships. With having had relationships before coming to Ben, she also felt that marrying older than her age was a wise decision.
She shared: “I’m definitely smart enough to marry a man much older than me. He knows what he wants and always treats me like a queen. I soon realized it. that in many previous relationships, men my age were immature.”
The whole family of 6 has lived happily together for many years.
Up to now, after several years of marriage, their family is still very happy. Krystle regularly shares family photos on her personal accounts, proving that the relationship in the house is very strong. Ben’s stepchildren love her more and more. Krystle’s family was initially worried about their children’s love, but now they are completely supportive when they see her happy every day.
She believes that living a happy and peaceful life with her husband over 20 years old is the best way to prove their strong relationship. Moreover, it also clearly states that age does not create a gap in love.